‘My house is too big for me alone’

Dear Pastor,

I would like to tell you that you are a breath of fresh air in this evil world in which we live. I pray God's divine favour and richest blessings upon your life and upon the lives of all your loved ones. May your blessings know no bounds and continue to flow. Keep up the awesome work.

I am a 53-year-old male, who is Jamaican-born and bred. I am currently living in New Jersey in the United States of America (USA). I am divorced and would like to find a decent, God-fearing woman to communicate with.

I live in a big house and I don't have anyone to share it with. This is what happens when a woman is chasing her career and dreams, and not really thinking about men. I have come to realise that my house is too big for me alone. All I need right now is a good woman to keep me warm. I do not need material things because I have everything I need.

I grew up in Clarendon and served in the Jamaica Defence Force for 10 years. I suffered lots of misfortunes along the way, but God has been good to me. God has turned my life around completely, and I live each day with a humble approach and utmost gratitude to God. All I need is a decent woman of old school moral and values to share my life with.

I am a Seventh-day Adventist, therefore, my first choice would be someone of that flock. It would be absolutely wonderful if I could find someone who is down-to-earth, has a sense of humour, is romantic, thoughtful, kind and family-oriented. My preference is someone who is slim. In the end though, it is all about the personality, as it is that which lies within and not about one's outward appearance.

I am definitely not a materialistic person. The focus is for us to thrive to live for God and establish a wonderful relationship, leading to marriage.

J