Fiancé is treating me right

August 26, 2022

Dear Pastor,

I am a 30-year-old woman. My boyfriend and I have been going together for two years. He is 35 years old. When I met him, he had just broken up with his child's mother.

He accused her of cheating which she denied. I have always wanted to live in a new house, but this man had just purchased an old house and was refurbishing it. He took me through the house and I was impressed with the high ceilings and the size of the kitchen. It didn't take me long to change my mind about living in a new house.


This house was a five-bedroom and two-bathroom dwelling. I looked into the master bedroom and I showed my man what type of bedroom I would love to have and he promised to give me just what would please me. I know many women love pink. The room was painted in green. I told him that I did not want green. He asked if I liked pink and I said no, paint it white. I trusted this man so much that I offered to help him refurbish the house. I spent most of my time after work with him. People thought I was a part of his team.

This man has two children and I agreed that they should live with us. Unfortunately, their mother did not agree because she thought that no other woman should live in that house. I loaned my boyfriend $500,000 to get the house in shape. We rebuilt our bathroom and one day we were so exhausted that we christened the house, but not with prayer. We are still not married but that is being planned. I have never asked him for my money and he has not told me that he will return it. But I am now driving a SUV which he bought for me and my doctor has confirmed that I am pregnant. We plan to ask you to officiate at our wedding.

Everything will not be in shape by the end of the year, but we will move in to our home. He plans to buy another old house and refurbish that also and rent it out.


Dear R.,

I remember talking to a former minister of government who told me that he and other former parliamentarians were searching to find houses that they could refurbish and either rent or sell. Yes, they knew that the market was good for that type of business.

You met a man who believes in himself and in you. He saw that you could make him a good wife and that you were not a giddy-headed girl. You understood his plans. He made suggestions to you and you accepted them and you made suggestions and he accepted them. That's what couples should do, they should work together.

I am glad that everything is going well with both of you. I am willing to officiate at your wedding. Whenever you are ready to get married, please call me at 876-877-1009 or 876-929-1667 and set an appointment with my secretary to meet with me.


Other Tell Me Pastor Stories