Boyfriend is a sex addict

August 26, 2022

Dear Pastor,

I am 29 years old and I am dating a 24-year-old man. Both of us are working. But I am worried. I have two children. This young man wants us to have sex every night regardless of what time he comes in.

I have tried my best to please him but I cannot keep up. He has started to accuse me of having another man in my life. I don't have time for that. This is the same thing that I was trying to run away from when I met this man. I told him that I did not want such a young man, but he said that I should not judge him because age is just a number.

I don't always have this stamina to have sex with this man for an hour and then wake up and have him ravage me again for another hour and I have to go to work. I love this man but I am trying to get him to understand that I will always be here for him. I am not running away. Sometimes I am so tired. He is a good man and a good stepfather to my children.

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Dear Writer,

This man and you should continue to discuss this problem. Some women need more sex than other women and some men need more sex than other men.

This young man should be reasonable and right now he is not being reasonable at all. You should be allowed to take your rest. He is killing himself over something that he can't finish.

Communication between the both of you is not good. Both of you have to compromise and find a way of meeting each other's needs. It can be done. But I would not suggest that you think of leaving this man. You have already said that he is a good man.

Pastor

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